My 40 Must Reads

Earlier this month, I mentioned my anxiety about turning the big four-oh, which is a mere five days away. The list I made, of books to read in my 40th year, was fun to create and has helped me shift to a more positive view of the next decade of my life.

After lining up important books I want to read in my 40th year, it occurred to me that it’s just as important to honor the books that have made me who I am over my first four decades.

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My list spans from my childhood all the way up to this month. These are books that have influenced me in some major way, and I highly recommend all of them. So here they are in no particular order:

 

40 Must Reads From My First 40 Years

 

Watership Down  – Richard Adams

To Think That I Saw It On Mulberry Street – Dr Seuss

NakedDavid Sedaris

The Lovely Bones – Alice Sebold

All Around the Town – Mary Higgins Clark

Circle of Friends – Maeve Binchy

The Gold CellSharon Olds

Until I Find You – John Irving

The Underground Railroad – Colson Whitehead

Middlesex – Jeffrey Eugenides

Tell the Wolves I’m Home – Carol Rifka Blunt

The Joy of Appreciative Living – Jacqueline Kelm

The Four Agreements – Miguel Ruiz

The Happiness ProjectGretchen Rubin

This is How – Augusten Burroughs

The Reader – Bernard Schlink

The Stand – Stephen King

Interview With the Vampire – Anne Rice

Great Expectations – Charles Dickens

A Time to Kill – John Grisham

The Scarlet Letter – Nathanial Hawthorne

The Five Love Languages – Gary Chapman

There is No Good Card For This – Emily McDowell

State of Wonder – Ann Patchett

Where the Heart Is – Billie Letts

There’s a Monster at the End of This Book – Grover

Good Morning – Brooke Noel

So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed Jon Ronson

Love Walked In – Marisa de los Santos

Poetry of Rumi

The Value of Believing in Yourself – Spencer Johnson, MD

An American Marriage – Tayari Jones

The Book of Essie – Meghan MacLean Weir

The Picture of Dorian Gray – Oscar Wilde

Are You There God, it’s me Margaret – Judy Blume

Outlander – Diana Gabaldon

Modern Romance – Aziz Ansari

You Don’t Have to Say You Love Me – Sherman Alexie

Big Magic – Elizabeth Gilbert

The Dogs of Babel – Carolyn Parkhurst

 

This list wasn’t as easy to make as I expected. I was super picky about which titles made it. It isn’t only about being a “favorite” book or even an incredibly good book, though a few of each are on here. All forty of these books have stayed with me long after I read them, in some cases years or even decades. If I’ve ever read a book more than once for my own enjoyment, it’s on this list.

Many of these books shaped who I am in a pivotal way. Some crossed my path at an important time in my life to help me process or reflect on traumatic experiences, some simply healed my broken heart.

I made an effort to only include an author once on this list, so it’s safe to say that most of these authors have written other books I’ve enjoyed as well.

I hope you like my list, and I’d love to hear which books have made you who you are!

 

4 Comments

  1. Doree Weller

    August 20, 2018 at 8:16 pm

    Lots of great books on this list!

  2. Anonymous

    August 21, 2018 at 3:02 am

    Great list – and I’m living proof that there is life beyond the big four-ohh!. I’m close to clocking up three decades on from that magic age, and life couldn’t be better.
    My book list is a bit boring compared to yours, but some of the books I have read many times are:
    The Woman in White – Wilkie Collins
    Tess of the d’Urbevilles – Thomas Hardy
    Wuthering Heights – Emily Bronte
    Other favourites are:
    Cry of the Curlew – Peter Watt
    The Four Fires – Bryce Courtenay
    The Readers of Broken Wheel Recommend – Katarina Bivald
    Cave in the Snow – Vicki Mackenzie
    Living With Max – Chloe Maxwell
    The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo – Stieg Larsson
    True Spirit – Jessica Watson
    Alchemist – Paulo Coelho
    Tuesdays With Morrie – Mitch Albom
    Twilight – Stephanie Meyer
    Quiver Full of Arrows – Jeffrey Archer
    Angela’s Ashes – Frank McCourt
    I won’t even start on the thousands of academic books I read over my thirty-plus years of teaching. I lived for the summer holidays when I could read a novel! Now that I’m retired, I can read whatever I like – and I’m loving it.

  3. Ramona Mead

    August 21, 2018 at 7:39 pm

    That’s a great list. I almost had Twilight on mine too! Most of your others, I haven’t read. My husband keeps telling me I should read The Woman in White, maybe this year!

  4. Ramona Mead

    August 21, 2018 at 7:39 pm

    Thanks, friend! I’ve been watching your favorite book posts lately 🙂

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